Dating
violence is one of the most common, dangerous and overlooked problems facing
teens today. Unhealthy relationships can
start early and last a lifetime, leading to lifelong unhealthy relationship
practices. Dating violence crosses all racial and ethnic lines. Males and
females alike fall victim. The teen group is at risk because statistics have
shown that they are the least likely group to disclose warning signs or abuse
to a friend, family member or trusted adult and especially to report dating
violence to police.
The idea of treating others with
respect may seem like common sense, but the truth is that quite a few teens are
involved in violent relationships. Teens, as well as everyone else, have to
understand that violence is never acceptable. Education is the key to
preventing this behavior. Prevention initiatives include early education about
healthy dating practices as well as guidance on how to detect violent behavior.
Teens need to be made aware of resources available to them. They also need to
be empowered to stand up for themselves and to not allow disrespectful
behavior.
The issue of teen dating violence is one
that is very close to my heart. I was in an emotionally and physically abusive
relationship for 3 years which began when I was 17. After several unsuccessful
attempts at leaving the relationship, I reached my breaking point when I was
struck in the face so hard that my vision was permanently damaged. With the support of my family and friends I
was able to leave the relationship, and I feel the strongest that I ever have.
Sadly, so many other people do not have the support that I do, and therefore become
trapped in a never ending cycle of abuse.
It is my goal to spread
awareness and education about dating violence. I want young people to believe
in themselves and know their worth. In honor of the many brave survivors, and
in memory of those who are no longer here, please join my cause. Together we
can end this.
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